Hernandez said the traditional dating rituals of high school are left by the wayside in college.
"In college, you mostly meet guys at a party, and they'll call you up on weekends to see what party you're going to," she said. "Occasionally, you meet someone that wants to see you in the daylight."
Michelle Ripka, who graduated from Penn State in May, also said that the college dating scene is much more relaxed than it was in high school.
"College students just act differently, and get approached differently," she said. "In college relationships, more or less you hang out, date, and when an anniversary pops up, you establish when you started dating."
Ripka and her boyfriend, Dan, met each other at work. The two have been together for three years now, because of his maturity.
However, Ripka said that most college guys aren't mature enough for a relationship.
Paul Jacobs (junior-kinesiology) disagreed.
"Freshmen girls are only interested in hanging out with their girlfriends and getting with guys," he said. "They're definitely not relationship material."
Jacobs said age takes a big role in a student's interest in a relationship.
It isn't until her junior year that a girl starts to want a relationship, he said.
For those who enjoy the physical aspects of a relationship but don't want to deal with the emotional aspects, "friends with benefits" is often an option.
"Friends with benefits is a beautiful thing because there is a 'no strings attached' policy," Jacobs said.
However, Jacobs cautions students with the intention of becoming involved in a "friends with benefits" situation because of potential drawbacks.
"The problem with friends with benefits is when one person develops feelings and wants a relationship, but when that happens you just dump that girl and find another."
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Couples will find many places to be publicly affectionate at Penn State.
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