Kamela Gissendanner has always been fearless.
As a child, Gissendanner would beg to sit atop her father's shoulders and then hurl a mini-ball into the basket, with her legs wrapped tightly around his neck.
"She would not want to come off," Ed Rideout, Gissendanner's father, said.
Rideout's neck would shoot up with pain because Gissendanner would stay up there so long; his tippy-toes stretched his 6-foot-3 frame upwards, closer to the hoop, so his daughter could get a better shot.
"That would probably be the only way I could score," Gissendanner said.
She doesn't have that problem anymore. As a sophomore shooting guard for the Penn State women's basketball team, putting up 15.1 points per game, Gissendanner has scored her share of points on the hardwood.
Her journey has taken her from stardom at Clairton High School, enrollment 267 students, to the all-star tournaments where schools down Tobacco Road were beating down her door for her services. She then returned to Pennsylvania, humbled, after playing 61 minutes in her freshman season at North Carolina State.
But no matter the distance or distress, her parents -- Rideout and Kamela Townes -- would be there to support her. Though Gissendanner never shared a name or a home with Rideout, her childhood could be considered quite normal.
When Gissendanner was born, she was given both her mother's first name and maiden name. Townes' current last name is from a later marriage, which brought three more children. The children all have the first initial "K" in honor of Townes' father K.T. -- brother Kane and sisters Kameron and Kamara.
Family is of the utmost importance to Gissendanner, who never refers to any of her siblings as halves of any kind.
"I never consider them step or anything," Gissendanner said. "They are a part of everything I have ever done, and I've always been a part of whatever they've been doing."
The separation between Rideout and Gissendanner has never widened. He loved his baby since before she was born.
"I love my daughter, period," Rideout said. "Her passion for basketball brought more to that love, and I just kept feedin' it."
When Rideout would drive up in his car to take Gissendanner for a trip, he would always ask her, "What is today?" The small girl in the passenger seat would then shout, "Kammy's day!"
Those earliest shots eventually manifested into dribble drives at McKinley Park outside of Pittsburgh. Clairton consists of little more than a bare landscape of a grocery store and a few shops. But Gissendanner's mother was adamant about making all of her children were occupied.
"I pour into them church, things around the house," Townes said. "It's great whenever you see good results."
With her father, Gissendanner formed a passion for basketball that included pick-up games against guys as an 11-year-old. Gissendanner also found an irreplaceable bond with her father.
"I always knew when I was with him that I would be guaranteed to eat and I would be guaranteed to go play basketball," Gissendanner said.
She never had to fear that dad would leave her side -- well, only once.
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It was like "The Road Less Traveled," by Robert Frost, which Rideout has recorded onto the voicemail of his cell phone:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference
After moving to Rome, Ga., to start a career as a businessman, Rideout came back to Pittsburgh to visit his 3-year-old daughter. The next few moments gave him a life-altering choice, a fork in the road.
As he prepared to leave, to move on with life, Gissendanner figured out her dad was leaving to go south once again, and she burst into tears.
"She said, 'Don't go back to Atlanta, daddy,' " Rideout said. "Then I couldn't go, I had to console her."
He never returned to Georgia until 15 years later, where he now works as a professor of mass communications at Paine College in Augusta. Rideout committed the next chunk of his life to journalism in Pittsburgh, and, more importantly, accompanying Gissendanner all the way through high school.
His job became being a father, and basketball was the routine. They would play together at least once a week, all the way until Rideout lost his first game of one-on-one to Gissendanner. Rideout, though, is no slouch on the court -- he starred at South Hills High School and won a collegiate championship at Point Park College.
Basketball lies in within the genes of Gissendanner's family. Her cousin Daryl Gissendanner played in college at Pittsburgh. But after watching Gissendanner challenge young men in the park, Rideout knew the physical aspect of his daughter's game had arrived and put her through a rite of passage at the immature age of 13.
"I wanted to see if she was ready to play high school ball," Rideout said. "I knew she was physically gifted, but I didn't know if she was mentally ready."
Every time Gissendanner drove, he pushed her around. Not to physically harm her, but to push her to the breaking point. When Gissendanner snapped, she slammed the ball on the ground in frustration. She said, "Dad, you cheatin.' "
Rideout hit back, saying that he wouldn't attend her next AAU tournament, because he "didn't want to see quitters." An angry Gissendanner attacked the basket left and right and, after handling her father in the game, she refused to talk to him.
"I then told her, 'Hey, it was just a test. I believe you're good enough,' " Rideout said.
She proved it to him again and again throughout those years, 2,703 times for a Clairton High School scoring record. In 2003, Gissendanner was the Associated Press Small School Player of the Year.
Gissendanner's innate talent had her competing all over the country in high school all-star tournaments, including the Deep South Classic. Duke, North Carolina and N.C. State were constantly bombarding Gissendanner for her services. She would go alone on many of her visits, because Townes was busy raising the other children, and later picked N.C. State.
"It was given to me over and over and over and eventually I just started liking them," Gissendanner said.
But quickly the honeymoon was over at N.C. State. The coaching staff tried to transform the 6-foot-1 Gissendanner into a forward/center. Decreased success led to less playing time, which tested her psyche and brought wandering thoughts of home. During her freshman year, she only averaged 5.8 minutes per game. At the same time, Gissendanner averaged about one call home per day.
"She was devastated by it," Rideout said. "She's a classy lady, so she won't say anything negative, but she was devastated, man."
Suddenly, Gissendanner's future was uncertain, but she knew she would head closer to home. Most of all, Gissendanner wanted to take the recruiting process slowly and more deliberately than she had the first time.



