In response to Jennifer and Todd's Wednesday letter ("Planners called event a sing-along, not a vigil"):

They felt that something needed to be stated about the intentions of the events at Tussey Mountain. I, however, feel the need to agree with someone that I don't know and dissent from two people who are my friends.

The events at Tussey were to be perceived in each person's own light. We all were left up to deal with the anniversary of Sept. 11 as we saw fit.

Some people went to vigils, went to Mass, or quietly remembered on their own, which is what I felt was appropriate for me to do.

Ms. Virgi ("Tussey Mountain event struck the wrong chord," Sept. 13) saw it as a day that was to be looked upon with remembrance and sorrow. A sing-along was not the type of remembrance that she thought was appropriate. I am forced to agree with her.

If I had a relative who died, or someone I greatly cared about, as many people did a year ago, then I most definitely would not think a "sing-along" would be appropriate.

As I read each letter, I got a good view of the two sides that they both put up. And I agree that we should have pride in America and show that pride when we can.

But days like the Fourth of July are meant for a party-("sing-along")- type atmosphere to show pride in America, not on the first anniversary of such a national tragedy.

In time, there may be a place for celebratory pride in America, but with respect to the dead and those who have lost loved ones, now is not that time yet.