This is my final column for the semester, which I am sure those who sent numerous hate-mails will rejoice in. For those who happened to enjoy my columns, I am sure this is a sad day. I realize that I need to leave graduating seniors with some words of wisdom: Have some class and culture.
When you go out into the world and meet new people, you must remember that first impressions are lasting impressions. The days of "keg stands" and "lighting-up a doobie" should be behind you. Too often graduates find it difficult to move into the adult world, but I am here to offer a few thoughts to make that transition a bit easier.
-- Be on time: More often than not, employers biggest complaint is about tardy employees. By showing up late to work, all you are demonstrating to your employer is that you are unreliable.
I understand that on some mornings your alarm simply does not go off, your keys disappear from the face of the earth, or (usually my biggest problem), the Shoe Bandit breaks in during the middle of the night and steals one shoe from each pair I own. There is a simple way to combat these problems: organization.
Check your alarm every night to make sure that it is set properly. Pick one place to leave your keys every night, so you know where to find them in the morning.
Studies show that women who own shoe racks are seven times more likely to be on time for work, so invest in one.
-- Dress & act appropriately: Many students come out of school with a great lack of knowledge of the fashion world. They will be invited to parties or events and not realize what attire is needed.
1. Business casual: Males should wear dark slacks or khakis -- which must be ironed. A nice Oxford shirt should be worn, but not in a loud color. Also the shoes and belt should be shiny and match. Females need business skirts with an appropriate blouse or a tailored pantsuit. Shoes should be flats or small heels and worn with pantyhose.
2. Professional dress: This is the time when a suit would be appropriate for both sexes. A male could get away with a tie and sports coat, but a suit is more acceptable. Ladies should also make sure to be well accessorized, all jewelry should match and shoes should match your purse.
3. Black tie: Any event marked by the term "black tie" means you should expect a formal gathering. For males, a tuxedo is appropriate. Women in this type of occasion should opt for a long floor length gown. One could probably get a way with a 3/4 or tea length gown, but do not go for anything above the knee.
4. Black tie optional: This means that a dark suit can be substituted, but bear in mind that others attending may be in tuxedos, do what makes you feel most comfortable. Women should follow the rules outlined above for "black tie."
-- Take in some arts: If one goes out to the theatre or an art gallery, this will given them some culture and an added perk is your visit to the museum can be used as an icebreaker or small talk at a cocktail party.
Even if you can not afford to go the Metropolitan Opera, on Sundays, invest in The New York Times and check out its arts section for reviews and features to broaden your horizons and knowledge of the arts.
Most problems that arise in social settings or in the business world result from bad first impressions.
As you graduate and go into the real world, understand that good first impressions are crucial. Just try to keep organized and if you have some culture on your side then you will come off with class.
